Sunday 26 January 2014

Kids Will Be Kids


Some time back while I was giving bath to my son Adithya, he suddenly dropped a bombshell.
‘Appa, what is life?’
Spirituality, religion and philosophy have never been my cup of tea and my knowledge on these subjects is at best peripheral. As I picked up my jaw from the bathroom floor, wondering how best to answer this existential puzzle that bothered my seven year old son, Adithya helped me with a second question.
‘Why is it written that two life left, one life left?’
Ah! There you go!! From then on, I reduced his quota of computer games by a good thirty minutes every week.
As a parent, we are supposed to appreciate and encourage kids to ask questions. I remember a teacher admonishing his eight year old son when I was a post-graduate student. ‘Ask me anything, but don’t ask ‘why’ for everything’! What the heck, I had thought then. Now, a wise father of two boys, I have no hesitation in agreeing to the sage words of my teacher. There is one more thing I have discovered in my short profile as a father. Parents experience tender and loving thoughts about their children when they are fast asleep or after they have left for school. Really!! Once I called a friend of mine and asked him what he was doing. ‘Relaxing. I have just dropped my daughters for the tuitions!’ Similarly another friend quipped, ‘son has left for school. And there is peace at home.’ Though told in a lighter vein, this also shows the talent of kids to exasperate parents.
Children are capable of astonishing us with their amazing abilities that can send any Limca World Record holder scurrying for cover. One Sunday morning I found my two sons discussing something animatedly sitting on the bed. They had just got up, had not brushed their teeth and their faces were hardly ten centimeters away from each other! Kids are immune to common irritants like smelly mouth, untidiness, homework and squalor. I can bet my neck that the amount of dirt and grime you scrub off their bodies during an evening bath would not be less than the quantity of muck spewed out by the washing machine after cleaning a heap of doormats. Homework is perhaps the most important activity that most kids are allergic to. They can tell you with a straight face that there is no homework on a particular day but the next morning they startle you by asking why you did not make them to do the homework last evening! Now the teacher would scold them and only you are responsible for that!! The drama and absolute lack of focus young children exhibit during studies is something that can put to test patience of the most composed parent. When exams approach and my wife begins to teach Adithya in the evenings, I volunteer to do the dishes or other chores in the kitchen. Else it is easy to fly off the handle at the study table with kids who are staring blankly at the books waiting to watch Doraemon!
These days it is interesting to listen to the lingo of small kids. When I ask my son to hurry up so that he won’t be late for school, he responds with a lazy ‘chillax, chillax appa’! Initially innocuous and funny, the language and slangs used by kids pose a challenge to the parents as they grow up. We start worrying about the company they keep and it is indeed a struggle against the inevitable trying to filter curse words and expletives in their conversations with friends. Oh my god, how will I explain to him why he should not use those words!?
All the parents daydream that their kid would one day become a scientist or an officer or a great musician or even a software engineer. After the rise and rise of Arvind Kejriwal, may be, a politician too. ‘She picks up the tunes so very well’, ‘my daughter is only three and she is such a good dancer. You should see her dancing for munni badnaam hui’!, ‘he is very good at counting and yesterday he told me exactly how many chocos he ate with milk’, ‘my son is going for robotics class you know! He is just seven and the teacher says he does better than the thirteen year olds’!! For all these planning and dreaming, children keep shifting the goalposts relentlessly. My elder son wants to be a space scientist one day, a Virat Kohli or Chris Gayle the next and then an actor and then a singer and so the list goes on and the younger son wants to be a train driver, pilot and doctor. But today, given a choice and chance, most kids would prefer to spend their evenings playing with their friends or watching cartoons. Just being kids.





Tuesday 7 January 2014

In the tiger land - a brief visit to Dholkhand



          
Dear friends, yesterday while I was going through old files stored in an external hard drive, I found this article written more than ten years ago. I do not know whether this will appeal to all but somehow, this piece is close to my heart and I thought of sharing it with you.

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In the tiger land - a brief visit to Dholkhand

It is more than one year in the Academy and still we have not been to Dholkhand. A bit shameful, really. Hardly 40 km from the IGNFA (Indira Gandhi National Forest Academy, Dehradun) campus, Dholkhand has a long history of forest administration. When we finally decide to explore the wilderness of Dholkhand, seven people volunteer for the endeavor. On 1st of November 2002, we start at 3 p.m. in one jeep and one bike.

Before entering the National Park, we stop at Dholkhand town for a tea break. Inside the Park, the presence of Gujjars, the traditional migrant herdsmen, is clearly evident, what with hundreds of grazing cattle and lopped tress. Mani and Manoj, who are riding ahead in the bike, spot an Indian Rock Python crossing the road. I get a chance to click a couple of photos. The reptile is nearly six feet long and hisses in alarm as it senses our presence. We retreat without wishing to trouble it further. The FRH is 12 k.m. from the entrance of the Park. Across the rau, at the horizon, the setting sun is like a fireball. Red and mild, not fiery, against the dusty forefront. Yonder, on the edges of a small ridge, smoke emanates from the thatched Gujjar huts.

When we reach the FRH it is 5.30 pm. Built in 1883 and renovated in 1958, this is perhaps the second oldest FRH I've visited after Kathiyan. Surprisingly and unfortunately, the department personnel are not aware of our visit. There is no drinking water, no electricity. Achchelal, the forest guard, who is in charge of the FRH, goes out to fetch water. There are cane chairs put outside in the verandah, on an extended circular portion of the floor. We sit and relax, waiting for Achchelal to return. This place is at an altitude of 475 meters implying that we have traveled down from Dehradun. A 'namkeen' packet is opened and aimless discussions begin. Manoj mentions mildly that if everyone remains silent for sometime, we might hear some animal calls. All of us prick up our ears and promptly hear the alarm calls of chital and barking deer.

Achchelal returns at 8 pm. with water in a tractor and with him is Ramsharan, a field assistant working at the field station of Wildlife Institute of India at Dholkhand. Manoj knows him and the plan for tomorrow is chalked out. Ramsharan is a true gentleman. Mild-mannered, soft-spoken and according to Manoj, excellent in field. He volunteers to prepare dinner and the lady probationers chip in with their might. I sit in the dining hall and go through the old register of the FRH under the dim lantern-light. Many well-known persons have visited this place. In almost every page I find the name of Mr. A J T Johnsingh, the renowned wildlife biologist. The furniture in the bedrooms and dining hall are old but give that 'period' look! Dinner is simple. Rice, dal, aloo sabji and pickle. But in this wilderness setting, it tastes wonderful. Post-dinner, we again sit outside hoping to hear some more alarm calls.

02-11-02
                   When there is a stream flowing near the place of your stay in the wild, all the problems of ablution are solved! It feels great to complete the morning formalities near the stream, looking at the wide-eyed chitals!! There is a lot of bird activity near the FRH. A big flock of Indian Pied Hornbills is cackling endlessly. Manoj says that they fall silent once the sun comes up. Ravi spots two gorals silhouetted against the sunrays atop the 'goral ridge'. One is feeding and the other is standing still near a stunted bush. We watch them for about five minutes.

                   It is a bit late when we start after completing the breakfast at 9 a.m. A snake path winds down behind the FRH before joining the now almost dry 'Dholkhand rau'. Hardly 100 meters behind the rest house, on the sandy banks of a small nalla, we find fresh pugmarks of a tiger. "Big tiger", gasps Ramsharan and measures the dimensions using a tape. It must have walked along this route yesterday night. "Had we come in a smaller group, some of us could have sat on this tree and would have definitely seen this tiger", Manoj quips pointing to a small tree overlooking the stream. Further ahead, along the rau, we find more tiger pugmarks. The sand bed is awash with the footprints of other mammals, mainly chital and less frequently, sambar, porcupine and jackal.

                   A small bridge is being constructed across the Dholkhand Rau. It would help in more connectivity for the forest department personnel, further destroying this already fragile habitat. Noise of stone crushing, movement of tractor, chatting labourers, smell of burning bidis. No wonder we do not spot even chitals all through our walk along the rau. On a small ridge, just above a salt lick, 40-50 langurs are resting. The rau ends and we take a turn to the right towards the base of Goral ridge. As we approach a small patch of Crotalaria plants at the base, suddenly a swarm of butterflies flies off. Glassy tigers, striped tigers, common crows and emigrants. Since we are already late, I don't have time to wait and photograph. I can click on our way back.

                   There is a big Banyan tree near the base of the Goral ridge, with thick prop roots. Manoj opines that if we can spend some time sitting on this tree in the late evening or early morning, it would be rewarding in terms of sightings of wildlife. The initial stretch is grassy and a bit slippery. But the climb is not tough. Ramsharan walks ahead with the gait of a goral along the narrow path atop the rising ridge. Padma needs a helping hand here and there but manages admirably. Geetanjali, as usual, is the last person, ambling along enjoying the views on either side of her. Suddenly we hear the loud alarm calls of a sambar. Lo, there! Right below us to the left side of the ridge, on a small open patch of the forest, a hind is standing. She must have seen us and hence the alarm. After a couple of seconds she turns and bolts.
          We reach the top at 11.45 a.m. From a height of 715 m from the MSL, the peak gives a panoramic view of the area around. There is nothing much to see here and after relaxing for half an hour, we start back. Walking down is always trickier than climbing up. At some places we are forced to crawl. Still, it is an easy walk. Near the rau, I don't forget to take the photos of the butterflies. Along the way, the sour taste of Zizyphus and Carissa fruits does not desist us from devouring them. We reach the FRH at exactly 1 p.m. Lunch is ready. New cook who has come from a nearby village has done a good job. Dal and sabji are delicious. No mood to go out after a sumptuous meal. Most of us resort to the best possible course of action-a siesta!

                   The evening walk to the watchtower overlooking the rau proves fruitless. Mani and I go to a nearby area and hide below the drooping braches of a tree overlooking the stream, hoping to get some good snaps. Not even the spotted deer are interested! We return to the watchtower after a 40-minute vigil. On the way back, Mani spots leopard pugmarks on the wet sand bed. Disappointed at our unproductive evening venture, we tread to the FRH. Amla fruits are ripe and inviting. The sweet taste of water after you eat amla fruits always makes me nostalgic! Later, after the sun has completely gone down, sitting silently near a streamlet, we watch a sambar approaching gingerly. It walks off at the same pace after drinking water.

3-12-02
                   Breakfast can wait. Not willing to repeat the mistake of yesterday, we start early, at 7.30 a.m. Ramsharan has decided that it would be more rewarding if we walk along the Sambavali rau, which runs in the opposite direction from our yesterday's walk. There are plenty of tiger pugmarks on the sand bed. There is fresh dung of elephants all along. A herd must have passed by a few hours before. Even after walking for half an hour, elephants are still elusive.

                   Ramsharan decided that the best way to sight elephants is to follow their track. And it works. Through the binoculars, Ramsharan spots a lone elephant slowly feeding on a ridge top, about 200 meters in front of us. Its face is not visible and we are not sure how many more could be there. Manoj, Ramsharan and myself volunteer to find out. Our guide knows that we have to be extremely careful while approaching elephants. A lesson he has learnt that hard way! Again we follow their tracks. Ramsharan asks us to stay put about 30 meters behind the elephants and moves ahead to investigate. As we watch, he silently proceeds very close to the feeding elephants and signals us to go closer. There are three, which we can see. One of them is a tusker. Some more must be feeding down the ridge. For the first time I am watching the elephants from such close quarters. Later, Ramsharan walks down to bring the rest of the group. I dare to get a bit closer. There! A small calf walks in front of the feeding elephants. I wonder whether the pachyderms are really oblivious to our presence or they are just not bothered since we are not disturbing them. But after a while the tusker stops feeding and stands still. A female, which is standing hardly ten meters away from the tusker, has also stopped feeding. Perhaps they have taken note of our intrusion. We decide not to trouble them further and silently withdraw after everybody has got a closer look.

                   It has been a satisfying morning walk. Again, on our way back, we see several fresh tiger pugmarks. Ramsharan spots a goral on the top of a ridge opposite to us. It is my closest sighting of the goral. I walk slowly, looking at the golden light falling on the creepers clothing a ridge wall. Looking ahead, I see all my friends huddled together in a group, frenetically looking through the binoculars at a bushy patch on the banks of the rau. Sensing something interesting, I rush towards them. Then I hear a clear growl. ‘Tiger, tiger’, Manoj whispers. I scan the entire area through the binoculars, but it is gone! One tigress and two cubs. Ravi saw the tigress and Raja Mohan could get a glimpse of the cubs.

                   The king of the jungle has eluded me, again. Even though I am disheartened, it is a nice feeling to know that still there is a viable population of tigers here despite the mounting anthropogenic pressures. After this exciting encounter, all of us feel elated and energized. On a different route to the FRH, we see broken branches of Rohni trees and fresh piles of elephant dung. It is 10 a.m. when we reach the rest house.


                   A walk towards the Ranger's office after the breakfast proves very productive. Sightings of Blue-bearded Bee Eater, Lesser Yellownape and Lineated Barbet. We are back in the FRH at lunchtime. No zeal left to venture into the forest again! After lunch, we wait for the vehicle to take us back. Susheel, our driver, who is late as usual, says that he saw a tiger on his way back to Dehradun, after dropping us here. Knowing him, we take his claim with a generous dose of salt. As the jeep winds through the dusty road cutting across the rau, we spot nilgais and jackals. It has been a good outing. We have spent only two days here and it has really whetted our appetite. This is perhaps one of the best places to spot tigers. Most importantly, what has struck me during this visit is that, despite the relentless human pressures, the resilience of nature is amazing. It is the duty of all of us to see to it that the tiger lands like this continue to provide us an opportunity to be one with the nature, albeit for a fleeting moment.